"What if you honestly tell what you really think about having children?"
You discover that your friends are also secretly struggling with the same fears about sleepless nights and career sacrifices. These conversations create a bond of trust that goes much deeper than your usual coffee chatter. Plus: you get honest insights that no parenting book will ever give you.
Mila (29), Amsterdam — HR advisor, collects vintage vinyl records
Last week I was sitting with four girlfriends on Lotte's balcony and I suddenly blurted out: "I don't even know if I want to become a mother."
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